Sunday, March 8, 2015

There's No Place Like Home!






I apologize for being very inconsistent in my blogging …but I have finally returned home and am nearly ready to pick life back up where it left off…almost.

After having my knee replaced, I spent the following six weeks living in a reclining chair in my son and daughter in law's home. I was lovingly cared for, my son Cody bringing me coffee each morning he was home and a plate of dinner each night, when he wasn't gone at work, at the picture above. He works about 80 hours a week, so it's a pretty big deal when he's home. My daughter-in-law (known as a DIL, or Krystal, or Laura for the sake of brevity and a swollen right hand) cared for me most of the time. She is responsible for finally finding a surgeon capable of replacing my big mess of a knee. Every day she gets up early, feeds the kids then races off to work at the hospital where she often has to combat someone crazy in order to do her job, but she comes home each evening to help her older little person, Abby, do homework (I was amazed to see her doing "would, could, know, knee, too, two, to and other trick words in first grade and properly applying them. Most adults aren't that literate these days. I was still a year away from "See Jane Run" when I was in first grade) fix dinner, run two girls to gymnastics, find cuddle time with the very little person, do the dishes, the laundry and get them both showered and into bed…then add me to the mix! My oldest son drove an hour and a half one evening to deliver a care package to help my very upset stomach as I could not eat or keep anything down for days. The care package was lovingly packed by my other DIL, Laura who had just had surgery herself.  Later, when I was a bit better, she drove an hour and a half EARLY in the morning through Tule Fog to take me to Dr appts…TWICE! I don't think I would have done so well without the love of my family. They are the absolute best.

Aside from the fact that they live in the city (in a really nice house) with a "drummer" next door, and I say that loosely as he apparently only knows 3 beats and plays them over, and over and over, day after day after day, a garbage truck that sounds like hurricane force winds and no critters, not cows, chickens or even dogs, it was a good time. The little people entertained me and my almost constant companion, (along with the sitter) 3 yr old Kinley, placed pillows under my leg, brought me ½ glasses of water (so it wouldn't spill) and shared her popcorn and, unfortunately her favorite cartoon with me…several times a day. (I believe I can probably recite every word of Garfield and Micky Mouse clubhouse in my sleep) She is quite taken with TheMan, otherwise known as Papa Randy. He just sits on the couch staring at the TV while she chatters at him and leans against him, and this has won him the highest esteem. Everyday I heard "I like Papa Randy, I LOVE Papa Randy" and so on and so forth. Once he returned to the ranch I assumed it would be MY turn to be popular. One day I told her "Kinley!" She answered "What?" I said "I love you!!" and with a sweet smile she looked at me and said "And 'I' love Papa Randy!"

Another day, Krystal took the girls and I for a pedicure. I was having difficulty getting into the chair and the lady asked "Are you all right??"
To which the older little person replied "She IS 59!" As if that was the root of all my problems. I couldn't stop laughing long enough to get up! I love the way these guys think. The first time I walked without a cane, the littlest little person screamed "LOOK AT GRAMMY KIM!!! SHE'S WALKING!"

I thought "oh, how sweet that she is happy for me!" Then she said "Now she will call Papa Randy and he will HAVE TO COME DOWN!!!"



It was a lot of laughs, a lot of love and finally the Dr told me I could come home, milk my cow, ride my horse when I felt ready and go see the surgeon in 6 more weeks. I missed TheMan and the Maremmas something awful. All the new lambs were born in my absence and the dogs took care of them.


The dogs are great about not only keeping the predators away, but if the ewe doesn't mind, they will often help dry the baby carefully and watch over it while she delivers a twin or triplet. The lambs often cuddle with the dogs or play on or around them and the dogs accept that with grace and patience. There were 7 lambs this year from 4 ewes. One ewe did die from unknown causes when her ewe lamb was only a couple of weeks old so she is on a bottle now. I look forward to going out and watching them play.

Sushimoo is back in and we will be weaning her very soon. The calf will go with the other young calves and I will be milking Sushi. It's been far too long since we have had good raw milk and buying milk products just bugs me no end. I  can't wait to make mozzarella and cream cheese, more ice cream and of course homemade butter!

The hens and ducks are laying eggs and I can't wait to start baking with the duck eggs. I keep hearing how wonderfully light and fluffy baked goods are with them! We'll be eating a lot of egg dishes, as we now have 66 eggs and this far from town I can't exactly gift or sell them.  The ranch cows will start calving in a month or so and that always means leppie calves, so I will be bottle feeding again as soon as my leg and back are stronger. I am looking forward to this spring and summer as I have high hopes for it!

I have a long road to go, but I am on the right road now, healing and getting stronger everyday and it is my hope that I can do all the things I am able to do, and can find a way to get around those things I can no longer do and have them done. Spring will be welcome here, as I am ready for flowers, and color and grass and butterflies. The drought has been just terrible here so we won't be putting the pasture in like we had hoped, or the new fruit trees yet. Maybe next year it will end and we will have a better year.

For now, I will be grateful for all He has done and know I can count on Him for all He will do.

The Ranch Rustics store on Etsy is open again. I will be making and curing soaps and adding them to the list as they are ready to sell. Whipped Tallow is available in Cool Water, Lavender and Bergamot Sandalwood fragrances. Custom fragrance can be made for a small additional cost. Soy wax tarts are available in a variety of fragrances until it gets too warm to ship them.

God bless all and thanks for stopping by!!

Petey




14 comments:

  1. So glad that you are back home again. Although it does sound like you were very loved while you recuperated. Your grandchildren will always remember your time with them as very special in their hearts.

    What happiness must have come your way when all your critters got to greet you when you arrived home. Not to mention your dear husband having you back with him! Wishing you a speedy full recovery and some rain to bring on spring!

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    1. Thank you so much! It was cool to hear the Maremmas deep warning bark suddenly turn to high pitched whining as they got excited to see me again! It is great to be back and everyday I seem to get a little stronger :)

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  2. Wonderful, wonderful post. You are loved. You are blest and you are getting well! Ya-hoo! I am looking forward tot he day you post that you are back in the saddle again. :) Big Hugs....

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    1. Thanks Carol Dee! That will be a great day for me. You'll probably be able to hear me whoopin' and hollering all the way out there where you live

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  3. So happy you are back! How wonderful to have such a loving family - that has to have made you heal more quickly. I bet the Maremmas missed you, too. Looking forward to seeing glimpses of your magical life.

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    1. I cannot possibly take them for granted. They have all been so good to me. THanks so much for stopping by and taking the time to say howdy!

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  4. What a sweet blessing you have in your family. I had to laugh at your littlest little persons responses. Kids are so transparent. Looking forward with you to more strength and continued healing. God bless!
    Kristi

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    1. Thanks Kristi! I hope this spring and summer bring great things your way too!

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  5. I'm so thankful you're home safe and healing! This is such an answer to prayer! I know you miss the rest of your family, especially the girls. It sounds like they all took marvelous care of you when your dear husband couldn't be there. And God bless that surgeon, too! I'm going to be praying for a bubble of God's protection around you as you get back into the swing of things! And maybe a guardian angel to ride shotgun, too! :) {{{Hugs}}}

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    1. Thanks Susan! I appreciate your prayers, always :)

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  6. Spring break and mountains are at there best. Daniel and the X-boy say hello. That not so little kid has made everyone forget the great procrastinator...me. I guess they're thinking of giving him a percentage of calves...because that's how hard he's worked this winter. I have become fat and...well fat. I'm still wondering if I need a higher education but have purposely almost made the first year. My grades are good anyhow. Are you home for good? It sounds like you've had a rough time for awhile but you're always such a lamp to the rest of us...and I mean those who read the blog too. I'm glad you still want to do stuff you like. I've met a lot of kids who want to give up. They keep asking," would it matter if I give it one more try..." like that song but with their own words. "If I wasn't here tomorrow would anybody care..." But sometimes the Someone in me can touch one and he/she comes back to see what it is I have. I have what you have, Petey...except you have had a tougher go...Someone who is much greater than you or me ...Someone we call Lord and can trust. Once in while one sees that...ha-ha I'm preaching aren't I...I hope things keep looking up for you and you can do some of the things you love again. You have a bunch of people wishing that. God's blessing remain on you in any case. the dex guy

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    1. It is always SO good to hear from one of you guys! I have to work a lot harder to do the things I love to do, and I may have to find a new way of doing them, but I'm not quitting yet! :) Thanks so much for remembering me, you guys are always remembered fondly.

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  7. Hi Petey, I'm so happy you're fit and raring to go. I've been following your blogs from allrecipes.com, Your grit and faith simply amaze me. Thank you Jesus for blessing you again and again.
    Magdalene

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